2018-03-23

[FM] FSMH feat Kendrick and Cudi

[FM] FSMH feat Kendrick and Cudi

I know somebody posted it earlier, but mine is different, I swapped Kanye's verse out for Kendricks. I don't mean to steal the other guy's shine but I thought people might like this version too.

ZIA0

The legacy of sexual assault

The legacy of sexual assault

Sexual assault is not an experience where the victim just feels upset and moves on. It can affect a person's mental health for a lifetime. This can cause a person relationship issues, employment issues and trust issues just to name a few. The legacy can also be generational in that it can affect how a person parents their children. As an example, I know of a case where a boy and his brother were raped by their adoptive father regularly. One boy grew into a man who touched his daughters inappropriately. He then committed suicide while his daughters were teens. These girls now have no father (no big loss in this case). They have all had problems with relationships, employment and in one case substance abuse. The original rapist adoptive father was known to local church leaders as a pedophile. He had pleaded guilty in at least one case. These "leaders" never exed him and continued to give him callings where he worked with youth. For all I know, this guy was also molested as a child. He's been dead for quite awhile but his legacy lives on. My point is, I don't care if a person is jewish, atheist, buddhist or mormon, if you know someone has assaulted someone, you owe it to society to talk to law enforcement. They might just visit the person and let it go but at least the son of a bitch will know he's on their radar. This might prevent there being more victims and subsequently, improve the lives of dozens of people. Sorry for the long post but I'm seeing way too many posts like "I knew this missionary who assaulted someone". If you have good information that an assault took place, pick up the fucking phone! If someone got away with it once, they most assuredly will do it again. Sorry, this shit makes my blood boil.

I agree. I am a victim of assault, but have made myself extremely unpopular of late by stating my belief that victims have a responsibility to report. I know first-hand how fucking difficult it is to do that. I know the backlash, the disbelief, the degredation. I know the fear. It is still my responsibility to report. Victimization includes the loss of autonomy when it comes to this point. I was victimized not only physically but psychologically, emotionally, academically, and professionally. I want to protect victims, but that requires reporting. I will NEVER expect victims to be responsible for their abusers' actions, nor would I ever want them to be punished for not reporting. Nevertheless, I maintain that victims absolutely have a moral obligation to report. This doesn't even mean reporting to the police, but making it known to someone. I do not feel responsible for my abusers' actions. I do feel that I am obligated to do everything I can to prevent others from being victimized. I believe that part of victimization is the requirement to report.

You are not unpopular. You are an articulate contributor with a different view. I can disagree and still listen and respect you. Your experience gives you a lot of credibility.

I genuinely appreciate this. I appreciate this post. I appreciate this subreddit. I appreciate everyone who contributes to these kinds of discussions. The topic is not easy. There ultimately is no right answer, regardless of how strongly we feel about it. I think sticking together is what will make or break us. I refuse to bend to this pressure. I will not allow disagreements about this subject, or any other, to separate me from anyone, ever. No matter what, I will fight for the side that fights for the living.

As I've read the stories coming out here by victims, your view stays in the back of my mind and it colors my perception.

I absolutely agree that in a perfect world victims should report. I didn't. My molestations were minor and I didn't because I knew my narcissist mother would rush in and make it all about her and I would be trotted out at regular intervals in front of her friends for the rest of my life. Also I was young and it was 60 years ago.

I suspect part of my reluctance to want everyone to report is an attempt to protect my inner child.

graphite practice rose

graphite practice rose

wow, good job. I've drawn a few roses, but they don't turn out like that.

Does not look like it’s a “practice” Rose at all. Beautiful!

hmmm

hmmm

/sub/madlads

This might be a repost, but I still thought that I'll share this.

Rule 1??

Damn beat me to it

Who doesn’t like Disney?!

Who doesn’t like Disney?!

Abi Ratchford

I hate Disney. But I love tits... So I'm torn here...

Who is she tho

Narendra Modi Android app sharing personal info of users without consent: Researcher

Narendra Modi Android app sharing personal info of users without consent: Researcher
Narendra Modi Android app sharing personal info of users without consent: Researcher

After Zuckerberg, now Narendra Modi to be summoned by Ravi Shankar Prasad. RIP.

Jokes on you, Feku will take a flight and live with his bro Nirav.

So prod of awar PM. He is doing #MakeInIndia with our personal data.

Modi did this on a government level. Damn. FU Zuckerberg 😂

MakeInIndia initiative reaches new height with this!

My Breast Reduction Adventure!

My Breast Reduction Adventure!

Ok. Every time I see these posts, I take one step closer to making a consultation appt. That "before" view, looking down and seeing nothing but boobs... I'm so over that. Thanks for sharing, and enjoy those bralettes!

14!

14! = 87,178,291,200

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's worth it. I cannot tell you how much my life is different. Don't get me wrong, I have great coworkers, but I can tell a difference in how I am taken more seriously now in my profession. That's just one aspect! Just last night I went to Target, picked up 2 swimsuits I liked and tried them on. THEY BOTH FIT and I didn't hate myself afterwards. I cried in the dressing room the first time I went shopping for bras because I was so happy. Gah I'm so lame.

Get the surgery.

Thank you for sharing!!! Congratulations. They look amazing. Enjoy your new life!! :)

Just gonna film the back of a truck...

He was probably filming the supercar on the back of the truck

Mario kart is getting way too realistic.

The rekt super car.

Should've saved his red shell.

Michael DiPietro opens the OHL Playoffs with a 43-save performance

Michael DiPietro opens the OHL Playoffs with a 43-save performance

Kid's a performer.

Reminds me a lot of Quick.

Holy fuck, what a gem

Kid just wills himself to super saiyan mode when the need arises.

Not sure if this has been here before

Not sure if this has been here before

deja vu

I just been to this place before...

Do you like my car?

GAS GAS GAS

Try one of these subthreads